The Ultimate Guide to Kissing - Kiss Her in 4 Simple Steps!

By Derek Rak

When you go on a date with a girl, do you ever think about taking things up a notch while you're on it? What if you're quite shy and don't want to ruin your chances of getting another date with her - what should you do then? Can you still go in for a kiss? Of course you can!

However, before you go in for that kiss, you need to know the proper tactics. First of all, you have to stop being shy and be ultra confident instead. After all, you got her to go out with you, didn't you?

Body language happens to be an essential indicator when it comes to relationships. Whenever your girl is around you, is she completely relaxed? Does she appear to be happy? Does she look like she's having fun? If not, then you might want to save that kiss for later, when the moment is more appropriate.

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Step Number One: Get In The Right Position. If your girl seems to be completely comfortable around you and rests her head on your shoulder, you can move your body so that you can go in for a kiss without having to move awkwardly.

Step Number Two: Build Some Quick Rapport. Share some wonderful personal stories with your girl to make her compelled to give you a kiss for being so great.

Step Number Three: Connect With Her. Look straight into your girl's eyes before looking at her lips and back into her eyes again as you move a little closer towards her. If she wants to kiss you as much as you want to kiss her, she should be able to take the hint and should inch closer towards you, too.

Step Number Four: Pile On The Flirting. Make sure that you flirt as much as possible to set the proper mood for the night. If a girl flirts back, then your chances in getting a successful kiss will be much higher.

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French Kissing - What Are the Rules About Kissing in France?

By Frank English

French kissing - the sort that the French do rather than the other sort - seems to have gotten a bit of a bad rap. To hear people talk it's hardly safe to go out in public without some French person rushing up and plastering you with kisses. Male, female, young, old...

The truth, as usual, is somewhat less fruity!

The French do indeed kiss friends as a greeting. Usually on both cheeks. It's often an air kiss between people who don't know each other particularly well but close friends make contact. Depending on the region it might be two, three or even four kisses. If you're in a bigish gathering this can take a while! You also kiss to say goodbye when you go home for the evening. Men kiss women, women kiss women...

...but I've very, very rarely seen men kiss men, and in fact the usual greeting for strangers, man or woman, is a handshake. Kissing is for friends. You don't have to be much more than a casual acquaintance, it's true, but it's not for strangers. If you go up to a French person and try to kiss them the first time you meet you'll be thought of as very forward, possibly rude.

The French are actually very polite, it's just that as with most things in a foreign culture, knowing the rules for French kissing is not easy. Best advice is to watch and see what other people are doing.

So if in doubt, hold out your hand! The French always shake hands. I will shake the hand of a friend I meet in the street. Or someone I know who I meet in the bar. Or the mechanic I know at the garage. If someone comes to provide a service at my home, like fixing the phone, delivering a new freezer or quoting on some building work, I will invariably shake their hand. So will my wife.

We will not kiss them, no matter how good looking!

Neither do you kiss, or shake hands, absolutely every time you meet, just the first time each day. So if you meet someone in the morning having a coffee, you share the appropriate greeting. If you see them again that evening you would not normally greet them again beyond saying hello.Also, if you're in a bar, for example, it's not common to kiss or shake hands on leaving, but it would be if you were at someone's house for dinner.

Confused yet? Like I said, best to watch what other people do. Quite often if you haven't known someone at the start of an evening, let's say at a dinner party, you would shake their hands when introduced. However, at the end of the evening, if you got on well, you might kiss to say goodnight.

French children seem automatically programmed to kiss from birth. I remember when we were first living in France being sat outside a bar and two young children arrived with their parents. We had never met before but both children came over and kissed us on the cheek. We were rather surprised at the time but their parents just gave us a friendly smile and a nod. The other thing we've had is children come up and present a cheek for us to kiss.

I'm not sure there is a rule for French kissing and you can be guaranteed that once you've learned what's normal for a particular region it will change in a different one! The secret is to keep your wits about you, learn what is accepted as polite where you are and, if in doubt, shake hands. Actually, the secret is to accept it as part of being in France and not get stressed about it. If you are kissed, consider it a compliment - which is exactly what it is.

For more info about French Kissing and a light-hearted but informative view of all things French pop over to Frenchlife4real.com. It's written by an English-speaking ex-pat living and working in France full-time so whether you're coming on vacation, or thinking of moving to France permanently, it's well worth a read.

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Kissing on a First Date - Good Kissing Techniques and Etiquette

By John Smithtonbury

First date jitters are perfectly normal, but how do you know if your date is ready or even wants to be kissed? Often, the first sudden urge you have to kiss someone is during light conversation. Looking into their eyes, listening, but also uncannily focused on their lips, their smile. How do you know if the feeling is mutual? Recognizing good kissing etiquette and good kissing technique is an excellent way to understand when and whether to kiss on a date.

There are several visual cues that can tell you whether your date is letting you know they are interested in you. Both men and women unconsciously flirt by grooming themselves. Women will play with their hair,touch her face to draw attention to it and fiddle with articles of clothing. Similarly, men will stroke their chin, adjust their collar and sit up straight to draw attention to their chest.These are all signs that your date is interested and may be interested in a kiss.

Pay attention to physical clues from your date, but also pay attention to what they say during the date and while walking together. If your date is truly attracted to you, they will ask questions about you and will be genuinely interested in the answers. People will show attraction to someone by maintaining longer eye contact and staying close to their date when walking. Frequent smiling and laughing are also good indications your date is enjoying your company and is attracted to you.

Keep these tips in mind when your date is winding down to a close. If your date doesn't seem to want to leave or end the date, they may be waiting for a kiss goodnight. Test their comfort level by moving just a bit closer when talking. If they back away in response, take a clue that they aren't ready for a higher level
of intimacy just yet. If however, they stand their ground or even better, move closer, they are
probably very interested and a first date kiss is perfectly appropriate.

The first kiss shouldn't be a full-on French kiss, no matter how strongly you feel about your connection. In the case of a first kiss, less is definitely more and shows respect for your date. Lean into your date a bit and kiss them slowly but with purpose. A little open mouth is fine on a first date kiss, but anything more than that could be viewed as too much, too soon. Let your date set the pace and length of the kiss and when it's over, touch their hand to leave a lasting impression.

John Smithtonbury is a full time author and counselor, specializing in dating and relationships. He is the creator of http://datingloveonline.info. He frequently writes about online dating and reviews online dating sites.

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Kissing Under the Mistletoe By Jean Frances

If you are holding a party this holiday season and you intend to invite that boy or girl of your dreams; the one you have been longing to kiss. Then this is the time to hang that mistletoe and take full advantage.

Kissing under the Mistletoe is an English Christmas tradition. Anyone who stands below the Mistletoe is considered to be free for a kiss.

The origin of kissing under the Mistletoe can be traced all the way back to Norse Mythology and the Norse God Balder.

Today it is a popular Christmas decoration along with the red berried Holly. The Mistletoe, also an evergreen bears white berries; which are very poisonous, so do not try them for a healthy snack.

When I was a young girl in England, no Christmas party was complete without Mistletoe hanging from the ceiling. The girls would stand innocently under it, hoping the boy of her dreams would take full advantage and plant a long kiss on her lips.

The Mistletoe was usually hung between doorways. That way not only could it be seen easier but most everyone would have to pass under it at some point; making them vulnerable to receiving a kiss.

Although, back in Dickens days the kissing of young ladies under the Mistletoe was a custom that only men could take advantage of. Things had changed somewhat when I was a young girl and females decided it was fair game for them to take equal advantage and kiss any young man they desired, who was standing under the Mistletoe.

If you can not find fresh Mistletoe there are plenty of artificial bunches to be found. Bunch the Mistletoe together and tie it with a red ribbon.

Although, traditionally Mistletoe was hung in the kitchen, where men could take full advantage of the pretty housemaids, today the Mistletoe can be hung with a tack to the middle of any open doorway or even from the ceiling with a longer ribbon.

Of course the more bunches you hang and the better chance you have of coming face to face under the Mistletoe with that one person you have been longing to kiss.

Kissing under Mistletoe is a fun way to get that first kiss. If you want more advice on love and relationships it can be found at http://www.StoppingYourBreakUp.com

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When Four Play the Dating Game

• NOVEMBER 3, 2009

By Elizabeth Bernstein

I was wrong about marriage. I thought that as long as I tied the knot—and made sure it stayed tied—I'd never have to date again.

Then I found myself out at a restaurant, smiling a little too broadly, watching my table manners and nervously trying to make conversation.

It was a date all right—a "couples date."

My husband and I were having dinner with an acquaintance and his wife who had just moved to town. We were hoping the evening would be the start of a friendship.

Little did we know that finding another couple we could stand to spend time with could seem twice as hard as finding each other in the first place.

"It's frustrating," says Ben Van Houten, a 40-year-old technology writer. "We are looking for chemistry—a couple to become life-long friends with us. But we have not been able to find it."

Since moving to Grand Rapids, Mich., three years ago, Mr. Van Houten and his wife have gone out with several of his old high-school buddies and their spouses, and tried to meet couples through work and their son's school.

They had one "date" where the woman was self-absorbed, another, Mr. Van Houten recalls, where the man was "a complete dud with no sense of humor," and a third that was ruined by politics. When Mr. Van Houten got up his nerve and asked a neighbor and his wife out to dinner, the man replied, "I don't like people."

For the past few weeks, the Van Houtens have been waiting nervously for a couple to reschedule a date they had postponed—and debating whether to call first. "With couples dating, you really have to put yourself out there," Mr. Van Houten says. "It's hard."

Yup. The possibilities for awkwardness are seemingly endless. And if something goes wrong, you don't just embarrass yourself. You embarrass your mate, as well.

Just ask Brett Blumenthal.>>>

When Old Flames Beckon Online

• OCTOBER 6, 2009

By ELIZABETH BERNSTEIN

Is it really a good idea to "friend" our old flames and crushes online?

Ask Joy Moore, who recently went searching for her first love on the Internet. In 1974, he was captain of the high-school football team—tall, handsome, with mutton-chop sideburns that Ms. Moore says were "all the rage at the time." He took her to church events and taught her how to kiss. Then he moved away.

Flash ahead 30-odd years. When Ms. Moore saw her old love's name on Facebook, she says she felt "that little flutter" in her chest.

Until she saw his picture. "He had a beard down to his belly and looked just like one of the members of ZZ Top," says Ms. Moore, 49 years old, an executive coach in Albuquerque, N.M. "His accomplishment for the year was being the local darts champ."

Think about it. We went years without reconnecting, and everything was fine. But now, thanks to social-networking sites such as Facebook, MySpace and LinkedIn, our old lovers are essentially popping up in our own homes. It's like having a secret stash of ice cream in the freezer. Even if it's a little stale, it can be hard to resist.

After all, we're talking about the first person we had a crush on, or kissed, or cried over, or had sex with, or took home to Mom, or maybe even married. No wonder we're curious.

Perhaps we want to ponder the road not taken. Or maybe we're searching for forgiveness—or vindication. If we are single, or unhappy in a current relationship, we might be looking for someone who was attracted to us at one time because, so the theory goes, they could be attracted to us again.

Or we may be looking for closure. "My ex-husband found me on Facebook, and I said sure, what the heck, and friended him," says Lisa Bakken, a 45-year-old business manager in Grand Lake, Colo., who was married for five years. "When the wall posted 'Lisa and Oddvar are now friends,' I thought it was hysterical. It's about time!"

Many of us are simply nostalgic. Contacting an old flame allows you to "look back fondly on that innocent time in your life when you didn't have any significant responsibilities," says Georgi Chase, 45, of Novato, Calif., who works at a consulting firm and looked up an old boyfriend through a networking site. "You can go back and rediscover your 19-year-old self and wonder what she would think of the 45-year-old you."

That's all fine and dandy. But I warn you: You are playing with fire.>>>

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